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5 Ways to make things more exciting in the bedroom if you’re in a long term relationship

While there’s many benefits of being in a long term relationship when in the bedroom, as they know the things you like, there’s also the possibility of things becoming boring or very, same-sy.

It’s always important to try and keep things exciting by trying new things, and making sex exciting, and not just another “part of your routine”.

While it’s easy to get caught up in the day to day monotony of life, and for things to become dull, keeping things exciting in the bedroom will keep you and your relationship happy.

Here’s some things you can try.

1 Aphrodisiacs:

Meals are very standard dates, why not try having some aphrodisiacs with your meal to get you in the mood, and spice things up?

The obvious one: oysters. Despite their weird texture they’re one of the top aphrodisiacs.

2 Lingerie:

If your looking to spice up things in the bedroom then go shopping for some new lingerie. If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, your partner will be dying to get you out of your new sexy lingerie. You don’t even have to spend a fortune, just seeing you in something new and sexy, is enough to get things going.

3: Start from early on:

Don’t wait till you get home and back into the bedroom to get things going, start sexting him at work. Maybe send a few pics. Between that the new lingerie, and the aphrodisiacs at dinner, you’ll both be dying to get each other naked.

4: Try props:

While this can be daunting for some people, but if you’re with your partner a while you should feel comfortable enough to talk to them about anything in the bedroom. Trying out vibrators, edible body paint, or even massage oil, can help add more passion in the bedroom. And it can make for much better sex.

5: Try new positions:

This sounds pretty obvious, but many couples use the same positions, a lot, so try changing things up a bit. You don’t have to go all kama sutra on them but try changing things up, and seeing what works for you, and what your partner enjoys.

There’s many other ways to spice up your sex life, but these are cheap, and easy ways to make things a bit more fun in the bedroom, and to get yourself out of a rut.

Here’s positions you might want to try…


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